I have been married for almost nine years. We have had our rough times but to me, divorce is not an option. I am no counselor but it sounds like both of you are living a life about "self"...or what is in it for me? If you are putting your energy into yourself and trying to get even with the things that she does to you, your marriage will never work. Until you devote some time and attention to her needs, she will not care about yours. Marriage is 90% about giving. If you appreciate and compliment her and show her true thanks, she will begin to do the same. At first, you may feel "run over" by her but consistency in your life will bring security in both your lives. Please get some counciling prior to any decision. A Christ-centered church would be a great place to start looking for answers. I wish you only the best.

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